Deconstructing and reconstructing yourself
Ladies, welcome to episode 05. 🙏🏽
I got something juicy in-stores for you this episode and it’s all about DECONSTRUCTING and RECONSTRUCTING ourselves.
Now what does that even mean?
Ladies, I hear it so often :
I wish I could be a woman who ______
I’ve always been this way I could never do that, because _______
I want change, but I am afraid of _______
I want something different for my life but, _______
I’m way too _____,
I don’t think I could ________,
I’ve always been known to _______,
If I were to change, they wouldn’t recognize me.
The list goes on.
The narrative that we tell ourselves is powerful. Being stuck in a mindset, a body, a way that NO longer serves us is completely draining. It’s hard, it’s not fun at all, it limits us, it holds us back. It really does ladies.
At any given point and time in our lives, we are ALLOWED and in our absolute right, to take a good hard look at ourselves, within us, around us and say : THIS ISN’T FOR ME NO MORE. I want something better, I am more than this, I want to feel like myself and how I am showing up today, or the situation and experiences I am choosing today does not serve the woman I want to be. 🦋
And for that, I want to change, I want to evolve, I want to break free and BECOME a fresh version of myself that actually feels like the woman I am TODAY and the woman I want to become.
Ladies, it’s about deconstructing who we are. Analyzing what no longer serves us, AND reconstructing ourselves in order to be more aligned with the essence of who we want to be TODAY and Tomorrow. ❤️
LONG gone, are the friendships, relationships, habits, behaviours that are just there because “it’s always been”.
Nah, it’s about choosing what we want to do, Where we want to go, Who we want to BE and be WITH.
Deconstructing and letting go of what no longer fuels us, energizes us and reconstructing aspects of our lives that allow us to be mindful and purposeful towards ourselves. ✨
It’s about right now, it’s about tomorrow. It’s about preparing ourselves to become who we really want to be as women and what we want to make out of this beautiful life we are given.
Tell me? 👀 What is something you are deconstructing for yourself ?